Wednesday, November 21, 2012

A Visit from Stephanie and Mark

We had the good fortune of a visit from my childhood best friend and her family this weekend!  Stephanie is one of the women I spend a getaway with each year, with our other friend, Sara.  Sara lives in Spokane, where Stephanie and her family were headed for Thanksgiving when they stayed here a few days on their way. 

Steph and Mark live outside of the Portland now.  It's great to see every year for the girls getaways, but we never get to let our families mesh.  They have such a beautiful family.  We thoroughly enjoyed getting to spend as much time with their whole family. 

The Boise Temple Re-Dedication fell on the very Sunday they were here.  So they actually got to attend it with us.  Our bishop was sweet enough to mail them a children's recommend for it because this meant their oldest, Tori, could also attend being a baptized member.  So they were able to have their ward leadership interview Tori (Brielle was also interviewed and given a recommend in our ward) and the 6 of us attended the re-dedication at the Ontario Stake Center.  Some beautiful talks pertaining to temple work were given.  I'm so excited to have our temple back up and running!  What a joy and a relief to be able to attend the temple with so much more convenience now.



Our little ones really hit it off.  
Mark and Stephanie's children are the same or close to the ages of ours.
Ashton and Brielle printed off some Thanksgiving coloring pages for everyone to do.

  Our oldests, Tori and Brielle are exactly the same age and had a BLAST together.  
So much giggling!
 It was so fun to watch and think back to older days as a child with my friend. 
Here they are making No-Bakes.



Our favorite part was just having the chance to talk, catch up, and exchange thoughts on all sorts of subjects.  These two men are super well-read and it was fun to hear them dive into so much interesting conversation. 

It's a humbling thing to reminisce the days you and your buddies used to dream and share your dreams of what life would hold and then look at how things unfold.  We truly are so blessed.  I especially remember the years of boy talk- talking about getting married someday and what we hoped we'd find in our husbands.  All three of us (Steph, Sara, and I) married very intelligent men who honor their priesthood, honor us with love and respect, work diligently to be good providers, are family men, and consciously try to be better each day.

We watched a couple of movies down in the theater.


One movie we watched was one that Stephanie and I loved as kids, "Rigaletto".  
I still love that one! We loved the music from it.

Mark loves to cook and he had offered before they even came, to help out with any of the cooking.  He showed us his tricks for a juicy oven roast beef.  I was excited because I actually do that meal all the time but always want it to be juicier.  He also made a butterflied pork loin in the oven.  Super yummy.  I felt bad at first to let him even lift a finger in the kitchen as our guest, but it was easy to tell right off that cooking was enjoyable for him.  I've thought a lot about that contrast lately of cooking to eat and cooking for enjoyment.  Not gonna lie, it seems so foreign a thing to me to cook any longer than it takes to make something edible!  But there is definitely an art to it out there that I've never had the patience to explore...  I did very much enjoy eating it, though!


It was all good times!  Wish I wasn't missin' out on the fun everyone will have in Spokane, but we have family close by so it makes more sense to stay home for the holidays.  My own family is so far away and I don't usually get to see them for holidays, which is super hard.

...But THIS year... they are coming here!  My whole family from all different parts of the West, are meeting up at our house for Christmas!!! 

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

CrossFit Crew


I've been wanting to do a post on the CrossFit crew here at the house for a while now.  It's a pretty significant part of my life.  In March of 2011, I received my CrossFit Level 1 Certificate which gave me the knowledge and right to teach CrossFit.  I originally signed up to do it for my own learning and benefit.  I had several months to study for it and learn, while I continued to do CrossFit at my coach's gym.  

In that time, Todd and I were nearing the completion of the construction of our home and putting in flooring and equipment to the room we designated to be our home gym.  All that I was doing and learning, and the confidence and fitness I was gaining, led me to feel VERY blessed, grateful, and a bit guilty that I was able to enjoy all that and no one else could.  My coach was the only CrossFit coach in the area, owning a small garage gym, and had no other openings to accept any one else, had any of my friends been interested.  Some were, but couldn't find a place for their children since it was during their husband's working hours.  Or they couldn't afford it because CrossFit is fairly expensive compared to your average gym membership- it includes a lot of serious equipment and (practically) personal training which makes it rather expensive.  

My neighbor across the street took my children for me each workout, the class was RIGHT NEXT DOOR, and I was able to pay the fee.  So it worked for me, perfectly really.

But I started to wish I could let my friends share the same joy of feeling super fit and healthy even after having several kids.  People were frequently mentioning, "I need you to teach me what CrossFit is, so I can do it from home.", or similar things.  I knew you really couldn't just "DO" CrossFit from home.  CrossFit is not just body weight training and running.  It's definitely not light dumbbells and kettle bells either.  It's heavy lifts- a lot of Olympic lifts.  Things you shouldn't do by yourself and need a good deal of training to do properly.  It's strategic programming in a varied way- not the same few weekly routines like a P90X regimen.  

So Todd and I invested in extra gym equipment and with my certification complete, I invited a couple of my closest friends to work out with me on the days I didn't have class at my coach's (he only offered classes twice a week).  Then I felt bad that they weren't getting many workouts in each week while I was.  So we quickly upped it to 3 times per week, and I would just not workout with them on days that I was already going to be at my coach's.  I liked (still do) being coached and not on my own with my progress.  (I like being pushed and I like having a coach's eye to fine tune my form as I get tired, or teach me advanced progressions of things.)  

Word spread fast and soon I was up to over a dozen women.  Which did not really fit the room and really limited what we could do with limited amounts of different pieces of equipment.  I quickly learned the art of saying "no".  Not something I have a talent for doing.  It was clearly too crowded or took so many rounds of women to do a workout that my day was cut into too much and I felt it took too much time from my children and family.  When several stopped coming, most because they felt too crowded, I made a cap on the group at 8 women.  4 would work out while the other 4 watched all the kids, then they'd switch.  And that's how it's been, successfully, for a long time.  

I did, however, stop working out with them as time went on and I could see the benefit of them being coached, the same as I benefited from that myself. Todd started doing CrossFit about that time and my sister-in-law asked to join the group around then.  So I gave her my spot which kept the group at 8 people, and joined Todd for workouts with him. Which became our favorite part of the day.  It's like a date night every evening and I cherish that time alone time with him.  Now that he is certified, I get that coaching aspect from him too.

Todd's brothers and my siblings are all very fitness minded and they all dabble in CrossFit as much as they can with school and work and things wherever they live.  Here at the house, 2 of Todd's brothers (and their wives in my group) come regularly, and a couple of Todd's good friends, as well as their dad join Todd's group on occasion. 

Now, this group of people is seriously just astonishing.  To see what we all can do has literally brought me to tears.  It's an amazing thing to me.  My ladies are such strong, disciplined women.  Just about all of them can deadlift 200 lbs. or more. Almost all of them can do unassisted pull ups, LOTS of pull ups, and those that can't are CLOSE.  They put up some heavy weight, sometimes more than the men, can do clean and jerks, can do snatches, they are FAST.  They look great.  I just don't know any other group of women that can hold a candle to them.  I have my weaknesses in life, but I feel like in this one thing,  I've done something good.  I'm proud of these friends and their efforts.  They are healthy and CrossFit is blessing their lives and their families.  The only bitter thing about it is that it's exclusive to only 8 and I can't share it with more in the limited time I'm willing to give to a class.

During the month of October we did a 30 day Paleo challenge with this group and the men's group that Todd coaches.  There was a national Paleo Challenge going on that month called the LuRong Paleo Challenge for affiliated gyms.  We aren't an affiliated gym (costs a lot of money to be and we don't charge our friends), so we weren't eligible for the national contest's prizes, but we did our own jack pot prize.  Everyone put in $10.00 at the beginning and the winner got it all in the end.  

Everyone got a point for each day they followed the Paleo guidelines (no sugar, dairy, or grains, trying to eat whole/real food not processed versions of it).  And we did two pre-workouts which we repeated after the 30 days, receiving points for every second shaved off in the repeat workout.  The winner actually get's announced tomorrow.  

I've eaten this way for health reasons (Candida Overgrowth) for 2 years now and I know it is extremely beneficial for athletic performance- getting enough protein and staying very anti-inflamed.  In addition to being incredibly healing to your gut.  Bloating, constipation, acid reflux, it all goes away and your waistline goes way down just in the balancing of your digestive tract.  It keeps you lean without ever feeling hungry too.  In one month people were averaging 5-6% body fat lost WHILE gaining muscle (fallacy that you have to lose muscle to lose fat) and several of them felt so good doing it that they've decided to keep eating close to this way indefinitely.  The women were gaining 3-4 pounds of muscle in just that month!  That's pretty incredible for a GUY let alone a woman.  

The food break down is meat, vegetables (lots), nuts, seeds, some fruit (daily), little starch, no sugar. This way of eating is really just eating clean, giving your body a break from insulin spikes, and learning what your body can tolerate in moderation.  I really think moderation is the key, but that it's important to steer away from fringe diets that clump everyone into the same category eating the same things.  Every one's body tolerates different food differently.  Some need more or less proteins/carbs/ or fats than others.  Paleo doesn't tell you how many calories to eat or what your macro-nutrient portions have to be.  You figure that out on your own.  It just teaches what foods are really meant to be the staples of our diet and which are more of an occasional addition to our diets.  

Things like grains are really "poor man's food" used biblically in times of famine.  They keep for years and years and years.  But while they do have nutritional value, they are NOT meant to be eaten 6-11 times a day by ANY means.  Not even 6 times a week.  There are so many reckless properties to grains that make them something to really reconsider what "moderation" means regarding them in our diets.  Everyone tolerates them differently, so there really is no golden guideline as to an amount to have.  But going without them completely for 30 days gives your body a chance to detox and then you can add them back in slowly to figure out what they do to you and what you can and should tolerate.  

Dairy, again, lots of good qualities, but we are the only mammals who continue to demand nutrition from dairy after childhood.  Most, I repeat MOST adults have dairy allergies of some form whether they've learned to pin point it yet or not.  Post nasal drip, those re-occurring colds or flus, acne, bloating and other digestive issues.  Try going without dairy for a while, you'll only be pleasantly surprised.  It takes a portion of your immune system to digest milk and grains that goes toward performance and thriving if you omit them from your diet.  This coming from a HUGE fan of whole milk with Oreo cookies.  

Which leads me to sugar.  There is only one good reason to ever eat sugar: psychological/emotional relief :).  This does add to one's overall health in moderation by giving us quality of life.

Anyway, we snapped some pictures last week of our group.  We didn't want to let too much time after the competition pass before taking it, but sadly, we were missing two of my ladies; Melissa and JaNeil. JaNeil is 8 months preggo and still coming regularly!  

Every one of them are mothers- super hero moms of anywhere from 2 to 5 children!  It get's a little crazy behind the scenes at my house when the mom's work out and all the little ones have a tri-weekly party play date :-)  But that was kind of the point from the very beginning; A) To share an elite form of fitness that I felt selfish to keep to myself, and B)To allow moms the chance to get in shape despite the fact that it is hard when you are a busy mom AND when no gyms in the area provide child care.  I only wish I could fit more than 8 of my friends in my little gym without taking more of my time.  But here are 6 of them with me:

Our "mean face".  I look like Lemony Snicket.






Sunday, November 11, 2012

Boise Temple Open House

Our family visited the Boise temple this weekend to tour it during the open house.  It was dark when we were done so I didn't take any pictures outside and cameras aren't allowed inside.  Official pictures are taken inside which I used here (just to be clear!).  All of these were from official pictures on the Internet.




It was so neat to walk through with the kids and say, "This is the room Mommy and Daddy were married in." Or, "This room is the Celestial Room and it represents Heaven where Jesus and Heavenly Father live and where we can live together as a family someday."  The renovations of it were obvious, and very beautiful.   The children LOVED it.  They were walking around from room to room with a brochure that had pictures of the labeled rooms and they were guessing which room was which as they came to it.  They did a good job of knowing what was what!  I'm grateful for this experience at this age to give teach them in the very temple about temples and allow them to feel and acknowledge the holiness of them that you feel inside.

We went to dinner afterward and bumped into some friends who took our picture, since we weren't able to get a good one at the temple in the dark and freezing cold.



Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Fall Carnival

Just a few pictures from our Fall Carnival this past weekend.  We had Todd's step-sister, Taylor, come to the house for the day to babysit that evening when we went to the adult session of Stake Conference so she also joined us for the Carnival that day.  Stake Conference was nice too. 

Lots of lines for games.

Helping Lainey up to the duckie game.

Fishing for prizes.

The musical mats cake-walk game.



Home with their bags of prizes and a bunch of home-made browniesin my hands!


Thursday, November 1, 2012

Halloween Night






Lainey made funny faces for the camera all night.  She's been smiling really interestingly lately.  These were the best I got in about 20 tries and the only good one didn't show her cute boots!  Lainey didn't get the memo that I needed a smiling pic without running forward and out of view of her full costume!  So here's 2 pics of her- one with boots and one with a smile ;-)



Off to the Trunk or Treat!!!

More funny faces from Lainey.


Brielle's friend, Emy was also a pirate.




With her cousin, Camden.

Ashton found his buddy, Dawson, and instantly they were in a light saber battle.  
Boys are hilarious.




Laurie (on the right) and I were in charge of this years' Trunk or Treat at the church.  A lot of planning goes into those!  Planning the Primary Program and this at the same time was a lot to bite off, but Laurie is a go getter, and I liked how she and I worked together.  We pulled it off and had a lot of fun.  A record high amount of people came- MANY from the community.  We gave out over 700 hot dogs and went through 60 crock pots of soup!

This is Cindy handing out candy.  Her husband is the nice gentleman who donates
his time and his very large grill to do all the hot dogs grilling.

My friend, Heather.

This is JaNeil and her husband, Dan.  They were both my favorite male/female costumes.  Dan did his own face/costume makeup.  It was crazy good!  JaNeil is one of my CrossFit crew members that works out regularly at the house and she is over SEVEN MONTHS PREGNANT. Hence the Super MOM costume :)  So cute!

Our friends, Kindra and Myron.


 This, at the end of the night, was the best picture we got of her real smile!  
I love my candy girl :-)

Caught one picture of the kids' other cousins that night before it got too dark for the flash :(
 Raegan is Snow White and Makya is an WNBA basketball player.