Friday, April 17, 2009

Easter

I love how babies will want to make sure you keep holding them by letting their little fingers find your collar and grab hold for dear life... or a draw string to your hoodie, or your hair... etc.



Easter Sunday was my first Sunday back in church in a while with the time off from having a baby and General Conference. It was also my first time attending Sunday School and Relief Society in a very very long time as I am no longer serving in the primary. Lainey Bug (her most recent nick name) was very good for me and slept through the whole thing.



After church we took naps. The kids woke up before Todd and I and did a number on the house with candy wrappers and sticky sugary fingers. They were plenty geared up to go to Todd's mom's where we were invited for Easter dinner and an egg hunt.

















We're getting a little bit more sleep around here. Lainey teased me for a few days with two nights in a row of 8 hours straight without waking up to eat at night. Now we're back to every 3.5 hours. I thought she was really there because Ashton slept 8-9 hours straight at night from two weeks old on! Here's to hoping she'll reconsider it!

I'm doing physical therapy and felt myself really wanting to amp up the effort lately. Today I worked up a sweat and really worked hard. For the first time, it actually felt like a work out more than therapy. That probably means I don't need to be there anymore! I went walking with a friend last night and it felt so good to get fresh air and know my body was actually enjoying getting moving fast for the first time since I was about two months pregnant. Do any moms have good advice on how to get exercise AND fresh air with 3 or more kids? I rode my bike with the kids in the bike trailer several times a week before I was pregnant. Now they won't all FIT in it!

Monday, April 13, 2009

Lainey got a professional photoshoot last Saturday from a great photographer, new to our area. Feel free to click on the link below to see her pictures! They turned out so cute! We lucked out to be invited to do a free photo session to help her build up her business in this area. She was fabulously patient and great to work with. She specializes in babies. If anyone is looking for a great childrens photographer around here I highly recommend her. Her name is Christie Peterson- 480-678-7413. More of her work can been seen on petersenphoto.net.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Brielle's Rainbow Birthday Party

I LOVE birthday parties. When Todd and I were first married, the Relief Society in my ward did an Enrichment Activity on birthday party themes for kids. I didn't have any kids, but went anyway. They had SO many ideas! Pictures moms brought of parties they'd thrown with all kinds of themes. They gave us a packet with a bunch of party themes and suggested games/decor. I was instantly hooked and couldn't wait to have a child of my own to do a party for.

When Brielle turned 1 year old, I couldn't justify inviting a bunch of other 1-year olds to come party together. But I invited extended family over to watch Brielle eat her first cake all by herself. And of course I couldn't hold back and I made a theme, a cake, and a pinata for the older cousins. Brielle obviously didn't care much, couldn't really even open her presents without help! But I had a blast doing it. Really these parties are the most fun for me!

When Brielle's Pirates and Princess party last year was over and everyone was going home, Brielle announced to me that next year she wanted a Rainbow party. I thought that sounded fun. In an earlier post I mentioned that it was a little difficult to find ideas on the internet for this party because of the life style often associated with rainbows. At least that is mostly what came up in my searches. I didn't want any parents to get the wrong idea from our party or be upset. Of course they weren't and everything was great.

I'm posting pictures of everything and explaining it in detail in case someone visits the blog by a search engine looking for Rainbow Party ideas for their kids. (You won't find much help on the net!) So if you normally read my blog, sorry for the lengthy details.

(Pictures of the invitations are in the previous post) The table was set with a blue tablecloth. I cut out white paper in the shape of clouds for place mats. The plates were one color, the cups another, the napkins, forks, spoons, etc. Between the tablecloth and dishes, we covered every color of the rainbow. We were going to inflate balloons with helium and tie them together in a rainbow shape but ran out of time. So we blew a few balloons up by mouth and let them drift around the house. We also used different colored streamers to decorate the room.

I drew a big rainbow on a large piece of butcher paper and taped it to the wall. When the kids arrived, they used crayons to color in the rainbow where the proper colors go. This worked to remain on display showing the proper order for later activities. They did a really good job! I like doing coloring activities first in stead of games because some kids are early and some are late, and this way no one has to feel like they missed anything, and no one sits around waiting either.

Once everyone came, we did a Rainbow Fish activity. I handed out foam fish I had cut out and drawn a fin and eye on. They sell these online pre-made, but it was much cheaper to buy a pack of foam sheets and make my own fish. Girls got pink, boys got blue. Then I handed out glue pens- very inexpensive way to allow everyone to have their own glue, and to keep from getting messy like large bottles of glue can be. They each got a handful of colorful buttons and glued them on their fish for scales. I like doing anything with glue early on so it can be mostly dry when the party is over.

Being a rainbow party, the nature of it was really about art and crafts. So our next activity was also of the creating nature. The kids made Fruit Loop necklaces. They each got a piece of plastic stretch string and a small bowl full of Fruit Loops. I didn't think to have a fruit loop tied to one end before hand, so the kids did have to wait for me to tie the end of each one to begin, so if anyone does this, I would suggest having that done before hand. But I did start the activity while most children were finishing their fish, so that's a thought too. This also takes the time to tie the end once they are done, so having a helper is a good idea. Todd was helping me. The kids LOVED eating their fruit loops, but we wanted them to save them to wait until the necklace was complete so they could actually MAKE one. So we sprinkled Skittles down the center of the tables for the kids to snack on while making their necklaces.

They had been sitting long enough and were ready, by this point, to get moving. So we did our hunt for the Pot of Gold. I bought my bigger pot last fall on Halloween's clearance from Oriental Trading (orientaltrading.com), advertised as a witch's cauldron. The small pots were from the Saint Patrick's Day clearance sale from the same web site. With the recent scares from chocolate coin candy, I opted not to do gold coins. I used Hershey's Nuggets (used to be called Treasures, but they are the same thing) and Rolos. The candy is delicious and both wrappers have a great golden luster.

There were 6 clues hidden around the house, each on a piece of paper, each a color from the rainbow. They knew to hunt for the orange clue after the red, and the yellow after the orange and so on. I chose to do it in the house. Not only are there lots more places to hide things, but it was possibly going to rain that day too. It was so cute to see all the kids bouncing up and down like popcorn popping in my bathroom pointing up at the tip top of my shower door when they found a clue there. They all scrunched into my small bathroom like sardines waiting for me to take down the clue. It was sooo cute, I wish I got a picture of it. This game was so fun for them.

When they found the pot of gold, I broke out the small pots and they all filled their own pots from the big one.

After that was food time. We decorated cupcakes with different colors of frosting and made rainbow fruit kabobs (minus blue- Walmart was out of blue berries the day before). The kabob activity came with all sorts of disclaimers from me. I told them they couldn't play with their kabob sticks because they could hurt someone, and they couldn't even touch the sticks until everyone had fruit on their table and I said "Go!" They were very careful with them and did great.

Last was present opening. The party started at 1:00 and the final present was opened at 2:58, so all in all, these activities took almost exactly 2 hours. It wasn't raining out, so the kids played outside in the back yard until parents came.

The kids each received a paper sack to take their pots of gold home in. The sack also had rainbow bubble gum balls in it and rainbow swirl suckers. They grabbed last minute hand fulls of skittles to put in their bags too.

It was tons of fun to do. Even having had a baby just over two weeks before. It's too much fun for me to pass up each year! Brielle loved her Rainbow Party.


























Monday, April 6, 2009

Brielle lost her first tooth! We've been waiting for a while, it came loose a few weeks back. She was SO excited to leave it for the tooth fairy.





I posted a pic of Ashton at bed time in his pajamas and hat. Yes, he sleeps with that hat. He LOVES his hat. It's too small now and he still demands to wear it everywhere. He needs a haircut- his hair is long enough to make some serious hat hair with all that hat wearing. I guess it doesn't matter since it almost never comes off.

Brielle and I had a very peaceful birthday listening to conference and eating great food that my mom had prepared the day before to throw in the oven. Brielle got a bike and is excited to learn how to ride it. I got what I asked for :)-- a gift card to Lady Footlocker- my favorite place to buy work out clothes, and a heart rate monitor ring.





















I got Brielle's rainbow birthday party invitations finished up over the weekend and Brielle helped me pass them out. I'm excited to be doing her party this Friday. I'm feeling my energy come back and with most of the preparing done before the baby came, I think I'll be ready by then.



Aunt Janin

Her obituary- taken from the Deseret News.


"L. Janin Briggs Jackman 1956 ~ 2009 The world's best wife, mother, grandmother and friend left for her final great adventure March 31, 2009. Born Oct. 14, 1956 in Jerome, Idaho to Gail Lamar Briggs and Laura Pearl Hansen Briggs. Janin joined The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as a teen while attending West High School. She married Randy Argyle Jackman in the Salt Lake Temple June 24, 1975. Her greatest joys in life were summers at Lake Powell, spending time with her grandkids, traveling, books on tape and sneaking chocolate treats. She was a genuine friend to all. Her time was spent serving the Lord, both in numerous church callings and by lifting the souls of those who needed it. She was selfless and found joy in the simple things in life. Never bought what she could make or borrow, never kept what she could give away. Janin never missed an event. She was there for EVERY birthday, graduation, wedding, sporting event and party. She was the greatest fan and loudest cheerleader. She had an amazing sense of humor which kept everyone laughing at all times. She was young in heart, spirit and body. Janin is survived by her loving husband Randy A. Jackman -Lake Point, children Emily J. Finlinson (Jason)-Lehi, Aaron R. Jackman (Sarah), West Point, Claar J. Runyan (Michael) South Jordan, 7.5 grandchildren, her mother, sisters-Randa Briggs, Elise Sanders and Tracy Briggs Haynes. A viewing will be held Sunday, April 5, 2009 from 6-8 p.m. at Larkin Mortuary 260 E. South Temple, SLC UT and Monday, April 6, 2009 from 9:45-10:45 a.m. at the Stansbury Park LDS Stake Center, 417 E Benson Road, Stansbury, UT. Funeral will begin at 11:00. Interment to follow at the Lake Point Cemetery. Online condolences to www.larkincares.com"


We were shocked to learn Tuesday, March 31st, that Janin had passed away. She was the heathiest, liveliest, funnest person, and a loving aunt of mine. The cause of her death is unknown. She was found leaning forward into a bathtub with a serious bruise on her face. She was giving her two year old grandson a bath and it is suspected that she stood up too fast, passed out, and hit her head in the fall. The two year old got out of the tub on his own and was fine, not understanding the situation.

My baby was a week old when this happened. It's torn me up debating whether or not to fly to SLC and attend the funeral. I had enough tearing during the delivery that sitting is painful and driving to SLC wouldn't work for me. Especially with the added time of stopping to nurse a baby every couple of hours. Flying was not wise, being the sick season, and the worst we've had yet. RSV is big right now. The baby's doctor advised me not to go. I didn't want a baby less than two weeks old being exposed to possible viruses on the plane recirculating the whole flight either. So I chose not to go. I just couldn't imagine not being there, but it felt like the right decision.

The funeral was today and Mom said the Stake Center was completely full and that my uncle and cousins did a beautiful job speaking. Janin had asked her son (my cousin, Aaron) 15 years ago to sing at her funeral a specific song. He sang it at the funeral confessing he wasn't expecting to sing it so soon and hadn't put out much practice on it with his guitar. But my mom said it was very sweet and touching. Janin was a well-loved individual. Mom said the lunch afterward was strange without her. She was always the life of the party, but at this one, she wasn't there.

Janin was the most supportive woman to the people in her life. She never missed my birthday, even being 3000 miles away. She sent me packages on my mission. If our family came to Grandma's to visit, she was the aunt who always came by to see us. Even if just myself came to Grandma's during college, I never had to wonder if Aunt Janin would stop by, she always did. She was so fun and full of life. She definitely left her mark in people's lives. I'm very grateful that we visited her home a couple months ago for the first time, when we were in SLC. We spent a few hours socializing before we left for the airport to fly home. I love her and will miss her greatly.